Monday, October 28, 2024

We Have A Teenager!

Happy birthday to my oldest boy, the one who made me a mother! 13 years ago I didn't know how to be a mother but we figured it out together. I'm so blessed to be your Mama!!! You strive to choose the right in all that you do, honoring your priesthood and parents. You get your sense of humor from your Dad, whom you idolize, and even get your fleeting hobby obsessions from him. Every week it's a new obsession whether it's shooting or apples or hockey or a particular song. It's been a long journey to manage your anxiety but you've been so patient at such a young age. You love studying the human body, drawing comics, creating your own songs with the piano, and trying new sports. Your sister and brother look up to you so much, we sure love you!









 

Columbia, SC Mission Reunion

Last received notification that there was a mission reunion with President Doxey and it's been 23 years since he served his mission. I was able to get babysitting very last minute, so I flew down to UT with Lance for two nights. 

While I was in Coeur d'Alene the previous week with Lance's folks eating ice cream, the ice cream shop had some of the most unique and vintage candies I've ever seen. I saw the biggest jaw breaker ever and instantly thought of Lucas. If anybody's mouth was big enough for that thing, his was. Lucas even brought it to school the next day to show his teacher, haha!

The reunion was beautifully done and it was so nice for Lance to catch up with all of his old companions. He's so glad he went and even though those things can be awkward for the wives, I made my own way around and made several new friends by the end of the night.

Elders Gillette and Stewart. Elder Gillette writes music (aside from being a doctor) and we got to sing his song I Will Be What I Believe. Elder Stewart studied at Julliard and is a musical genius, we got to watch the video of the restoration of his Millennial Choirs and Orchestras that is just breathtaking.
The next morning we got to have breakfast and catch up with Greg and his wife. I only wish we had more time with them!

 

TEDx Spokane and a Surprise Visit

Earlier this year Lance applied to speak at the TEDx Spokane event. out of 130 applicants, 30 were chosen to audition and then 10 were selected to speak. Once selected, each speaker worked with a coach for public speaking. They submitted their speech numerous times both written and on video for a rigorous editing process. Once that was complete, the speakers had to have their speeches memorized. Each speech is 10 minutes long. Lance is a gifted speaker and can speak/teach at any time without any sort of preparation. But he's never had a speech memorized before so he was a bit nervous about that part. The night came and he did a very beautiful job, I was so proud! All the months of time, energy, and hard preparation paid off and he executed it without a flaw!

This is his coach, Jaime, who was amazing to work with. We got to go to a dinner just for the speakers.


Our funeral directors showed up to support Lance, it was so greatly appreciated! They even sported these awesome shirts they made just for the occasion.








Q & A time



Lance got a very special surprise visit from TJ!!!!! We haven't seen him in about 15 years and it was so gosh darn good to see him! Unfortunately, Emily and the kids couldn't come but we're making plans for a visit in the future.





TJ was able to stay for the weekend. Donna, John, Kempton, and Isom flew up to see the TEDx talk  and we got to spend 5 days with them. We drove out to the Cataldo Mission which is the oldest standing building in ID, built is 1850. It has the church itself, the parish house, and surrounding gardens. It is so beautiful! We also walked around Coeur d'Alene, the fall weather was so beautiful that we had to stop for ice cream. 




This is one of the large paintings still in the church, it was my favorite and depicts the creation.
A beautiful fall day in CDA




Short Vacation Home

We took the kids out of school for a week and headed to Twin Falls for a little vacation to see family. Christine, Trish, and I got to spend a few hours window shopping. We also walked down to the canyon to see the gigantic flag suspended there, what a beauty! Trish said it's 400 lbs and each start is five feet tall. And then we enjoyed lunch with Sally.

We had to take Murphy with us on this trip and he travels like a champ.





Savannah asked me to be her temple escort which I graciously and enthusiastically said yes! It has been such a tender mercy to witness her conversion in the last 9 months and be a little bit involved in her life in that regard. I enjoy our texting conversations about gospel questions she has and keeping up with her zest. She's got a really infectious personality, everybody wants to be around her and buoyed up by her optimism! 

She has thoroughly prepared for the temple and didn't have too many questions during her session. When we received instructions from the matron, I was surprised to see that it was Kathy Harris and what a great blessing that was! It reminded me of my own endowment when I received instruction in the temple from Grandma Watson, what a privilege. 

In the celestial room as I waited for family to come through, I was approached by a rather large man who asked, "Are you the aunt from WA?" I said yes, questioningly. He introduced himself as Savannah's bishop and went on to explain how he just had to meet the Aunt who lit the gospel fire in Savannah and what a profound influence I have been and also that my home has been. Those words were a humbling and shocking and I didn't know what to say. I certainly don't think it was me who lit the fire, Savannah is a chosen daughter of God and that spark has always been within her. Charity and Croft have been immensely influential in showing her happy and righteous ways to live; that influence has certainly gone both ways! But it did make me feel like I am doing the right things even when it doesn't seem to matter or isn't appreciated. My house isn't always clean and sometimes there's yelling or bickering and all that frustrates me. But I try to always have the spirit in my home. I try to have an inviting place for guests. I try to have a calm and peaceful entrance so when the kids get home from school they can feel the spirit and know that they are "home." I don't always succeed but I do always try and try again. I felt a bit of relief and lots of gratitude from her bishop's remarks, that what homemakers do actually matter and it's the care and love that makes our own little world go round.









The rest of our time was spent with the Coxes - Kempton's family is finished with their post in Russia and are home! We spent a few days at Donna's with them followed by a Cox reunion at the cabin. Kimball and Isom are inseparable, they did everything together. Moop is just the happiest and quietest little squish. She doesn't squawk or cry, she just walks around with a smile on her face - all the time. What a sweetheart. At the cabin we enjoyed four wheeling where I let kids drive the Razor's by themselves after a bit of practice, they felt really big. Kimball is a natural driver, he does great. We did some shooting, drove up to Independence Lake and the lookout, swam at Durfee's, played games, had lots of yummy food, the usual Cox singing, and celebrated John's 79th birthday. He never thought he'd make it to this age and he's doing really well!





Lance won the prize for guessing where Kempton's next assignment is and was given this fox hat. It doesn't get any more Russian than that.
Independence Lake was pretty cold and John was more than happy to wear the hat. 
Apparently I'll do anything for a good smile, lol.