Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Out of Commission

This past week I was really sick, at first I just had a sore throat and cough. Then Thursday hit and I was hungry but nauseous, had anxiety shooting all throughout my body, my head was spinning and dizzy and foggy, I just couldn't function at all. So Lance took the kids Thursday while I took a five hour nap. They went downtown to Riverfront Park and fed the ducks, played on the big wagon slide, rode the carousel, ate at the mall; I really missed out on all the fun. Friday wasn't much better so I had a friend take the kids in the morning and a babysitter in the afternoon/evening while Lance worked.

Days like that make me wish Mothers got sick days. But we made it work and by saturday my head was much better and I was up and at 'em again.



Cora's Update

Cora doesn't need to wear her orthotics any more which saves us a few minutes getting out the door. Her balance and movement have been good so she'll probably just need a little shoe insert but for now she doesn't need anything.

Her speech is coming right along! She'll finally repeat the first letter/syllable of a word if I ask her to. Our latest homework example:
  • cuh - cup
  • buh - baby
  • puh - please
  • mmm - more
We still do sign language with her and after she signs we touch our throat and say, "Now say it with your voice, Cora. Say ju. Ju. Ju for juice." It takes her a few times to get it but she eventually does. Which for her, is great progress! She also said her first prayer yesterday at dinner which was so cute. I say a sentence and she repeats it with a grunt, I'm sure Heavenly Father can interpret her grunts, right?

Her two allergy panels came back all negative for environmental allergies and the only food is milk. So until we can get the rash under control and her skin back to baseline, we can't reintroduce foods yet. Which I'm ok with, if her gut needs more time then I'm fine with that. She's been doing great lately and absolutely LOVES school. We're so blessed to have her!!!


Farm Bits

This is my latest project and I'm so in LOVE!!!

ABC's & 123's

Kimball latest obsession (besides the phantom mask) is writing his letters and numbers. Some letters he can write on his own and the rest I write and he copies it. This was the first time he wrote his name, proud mom moment!

The workbooks we use for mommy school, the tiny notebook he uses for church, and any other papered thing, he writes on. Boxes, stickers, mail, garbage, whatever. When we color and have art time instead of coloring he'll turn the paper over and just write away. I love it and I love that he loves it. I should probably work with him more on his numbers and letters but he's doing well figuring it out by himself.

To Embarrass Him in 10 Years


Phantom Boy

Kimball has been obsessed with this mask lately. It came in a set with a toy gun and a badge to be a marshall but I'm pretty sure the bad guys wear masks, not the good guys. 

This particular night, I went upstairs to check on the kids before bed and I found Kimball sound asleep with the mask on. The following pictures are from speech, etc. he wears it everywhere we go although I did make him leave it in the car for church.
 


 

Thursday, May 12, 2016

The Parable of the Divers

*This was given in Sunday School while I was in TF visiting. The teacher gave me this story and said it's from (Stephen E. Robinson, Following Christ: The Parable of the Divers and More Good News [Salt Lake city: Deseret Book, 1995], 34-38.)

"Many years ago, when I was somewhere between nine, and eleven, I participated in a community summer recreation program in the town where I grew up. I remember in particular a diving competition for the different age groups held at the community swimming pool. Some of the wealthier kids in our area had their own pools with diving boards, and they were pretty good amateur divers, but there was one kid my age from the less affluent part of town who didn't have his own pool. What he had was raw courage. While the rest of us did our crisp little swan dives, back dives, and jackknives, being ever so careful to arch our backs and point our toes, this young man attempted back flips, one-and-a-halfs, doubles, and so on. But, oh, he was sloppy. He seldom kept his feet together, he never pointed his toes, and he usually missed his vertical entry. The rest of us observed with smug satisfaction as the judges help up their scorecards that he consistently got lower marks than we did with our safe and simple dives, and we congratulated ourselves that we were actually the better divers. 'He is all heart and no finesse,' we told ourselves. 'After all, we keep our feet together and point our toes.'"

"The announcement of the winners was a great shock to us, for the brave young lad with the flips had apparently beaten us all. However, I had kept rough track of the scores in my head, and I knew with the arrogance of limited information that the math didn't add up. I had consistently outscored the boy with the flips. And so, certain that an injustice was being perpetrated, I stormed the scorer's table and demanded an explanation. 'Degree of difficult,' the scorer replied matter-of-factly as he looked me in the eye. 'Sure, you had better form, but he did harder dives. When you factor in the degree of difficulty, he beat you hands down, kid.' Until that moment I hadn't known that some dives were awarded 'extra credit' because of their greater difficulty..."

"Whenever I am tempted to feel superior to other saints, the parable of the divers comes to my mind, and I repent. At least at a swim meet, we can usually tell which dives are the most difficult. But here in mortality, we cannot always tell who is carrying what burdens: limited intelligence, chemical depression, compulsive behaviors, learning disabilities, dysfunctional or abusive family backgrounds, poor health, physical or psychological handicaps-no one chooses these things. So I must not judge my brothers and sisters. I am thankful for my blessings but not smug about them, for I wish never to hear the Scorer say to me, 'Sure, you had better form, but she had a harder life. When you factor in degree of difficulty, she beat you hands down.'"

"So, enduring to the end doesn't have much to do with suffering in silence, overcoming all life's obstacles, or even achieving the LDS ideal (which is similar to 'pointing our toes' and 'keeping our feet together'). It just means not giving up. It means keeping-to the best of our abilities-the commitments we made to Christ when we entered into the marriage of the gospel. It means not divorcing the Savior or cheating on him by letting some other love become more important in our lives. It means not rejecting the blessings of the atonement that he showered upon on when we entered his church and kingdom."

Saturday, May 7, 2016

Happy Mother's Day!

"I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know."
-Mitch Albom

Spoonfuls of History

I found this spoon last week in the ground as I was weeding and doing other yard work. It was buried out where our garden area is now. It's so cute! It's really tiny, about 4-5" long and has really neat elegant detail. It has two little spouts on each side of the spoon and although they're not symmetrical I'm sure they were at one point. I'm guessing this could have been a sugar spoon? Either way I love it!

This spoon got me thinking........our house was built in 1936. What sort of history has this spoon seen in it's lifetime? Did it live through the dust bowl years, did it serve soup while reading Gone With The Wind, did it serve the rationed sugar during WWII into tea cups, did it scoop ice cream watching Annie Get Your Gun, was it a fan of The Beatles, or maybe it was manufactured in 2005 to look antique and a little boy snuck it outside to dig in the dirt without his mother noticing?

Either way, it got me thinking about my own spoons. I hope when my children are grown they look back and remember their childhood spoons, they think of our family dinners and the way they constantly made faces at the table and had us all laughing until we choked on our food. I hope they remember how funny it was when Kimball discovered the back of the spoon was like a mirror and he made faces into the spoon only to have Cora do the exact same into her plastic spoon that had no reflection. I hope they remember the smoothies that cooled them down on hot summer days, and the treat of ice cream after dinner with mom and dad. I hope they remember how effective those spoons were at administering gross tasting medicine masked by honey at 2am. I hope they remember the number of meals it prepared for families in the ward. I hope they remember they each got one spoonful of cookie dough before the cookies were baked. I hope they remember the hot chocolate it stirred and kept them warm on blistery days. I hope they remember the spoonfuls and spoonfuls and spoonfuls of peanut butter that I just couldn't say no to.

In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun
You find the fun and snap, the job's a game
And every task you undertake becomes a piece of cake
A lark, a spree, it's very clear to see

That a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down
The medicine go down, the medicine go down
Just a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down
In a most delightful way 

Saturday, April 30, 2016

The Kids' - isms

Kimball
  • Is very mild and laid back, is not a risk taker, is cautious in everything he does
  • Loves to build with anything - blocks, legos, canned food in the pantry, mud, etc.
  • Loves to play sports - catch, soccer, baseball, football, basketball
  • Is ambidextrous - left handed with sports and right handed with writing
  • Loves to practice his numbers and letters
  • Is an excellent helper and pretty polite, he's become a little mom to Cora, "Oh honey, you'll fall so don't do that." "Good morning, Sis!" He even checks her diaper to see if she pooed.
  • Favorite expression, "HOLY MOLAR!!"
  • Is definitely a fish, he loves anything with water and I can't wait to put him in swimming lessons
  • Makes faces all day long and likes to make people laugh

Cora
  • Is a dare devil and climber, likes to do things by herself and her way and doesn't like help, she can be a little firecracker, definitely has the typical two year old fits (kimball never did at two)
  • Loves to dress up
  • Doesn't care for water and hates being splashed or any water on her face
  • Adores Kimball and copies any and everything he does
  • Loves food
  • Loves being outside and her favorite activity is swinging
  • Can say bubble and Mama. Her main way of communicating is through signing and body language
  • Loves to read books for hours at a time
  • Doesn't care for TV at all 

Cora's School - The Best Place on Earth!


Paiting Party

Nothing was accomplished last week due to all of Cora's doctor appointments so the house was very dirty with usual chores undone and no quality time spent together. So I got out these canvases and paints that I found at a garage sale a few years ago for .25 and we had a painting party. The kids loved it.



My Dare Devil


A side note from this, we've been doing a lot of yard work as a family and Cora figured out how to scale the chain link fence. Luckily I discovered her secret before any accident happened. Then a split second later I looked over at her, to find that she figured out how to open the gate. She was already in the road, two cars had stopped, and a woman had gotten out of her car wondering where her parents were. How embarrassing!

Cora's Update

Last week Cora had five doctor appointments and I think we're still trying to recover a week later! It was so tiring and draining but we knocked them out one by one and are done with appointments for several weeks.

This is Cora getting her echocardiogram before seeing the cardiologist. I never in a million years thought she'd lay perfectly still for 40 minutes during the echo but she did! When they asked her to move her arms up or her chin up or lay on her side, she followed directions precisely without fussing. And we got good news! Both heart defects are still mild and we don't need to do any surgery at this time or any time in the near future. If she were to have problems it would likely be as an adult and the surgery would not be open heart, but a minimally invasive balloon through the femoral artery. We don't have to go back to cardio for two years!!!

At school she failed a hearing test three times in the right ear. They felt like the readings were accurate and luckily the next day was an appointment with ENT. They also did a hearing with an audiologist and found the same results - failing in the right ear. But the doctor found fluid and an ear infection, which explains a lot! He put her on a potent course of antibiotics and if it doesn't clear it up then we'll resort to putting in ear tubes. He also ordered a swallow study which he and the SLP are certain she'll pass so I'm anxious to get that done. Boy, wouldn't it be a dream not to thicken up all of her liquids!

We are still fighting her darn rash. I have no idea if it's environmental or food allergies. It's typically an allergic reaction to something but I'm completely stumped. We did a blood draw and are waiting for the test results on both of those panels.

Cora's crossing a lot of doctors off her list, we are mainly seeing only three specialists right now: ENT, allergist, ophthalmologist. The other 10 are either once a year or only as needed. Whew! We'll find out in July if she needs another surgery for eye tubes (most likely yes), in June if she has a hearing impairments and/or ear tubes (I'm thinking no to both), and June for the test results of the panels.

What a trooper and fighter, we sure love this little warrior!

Oh and we got her results from the school's cognitive evaluation......drum roll please.....................she tested only one months behind!!!!! I cried, oh my gosh did I cry!!

Oh The Faces!



Cora Belle


 She felt so pretty in mom's shoes
 Her disgusted look, pointing to her shorts because Kimball splashed her. She really wanted Kimball to know she didn't like that at all!

 Falling asleep at 4:00 after playing in the mud
 Hula hooping with garden hoses

All Prettied Up For Church


Isn't this dress just darling?! Christine found it at H&M for Cora for $7, what a steal! It has pockets and a gold zipper in the back, love it!


One of the nursery leaders is 50's-ish Sister Mary Morgan who is a bit mentally slow. She is stuck to Cora like glue and I don't even know how she knows about Cora's health challenges she's had to face but she's really taken a liking her her. She made Cora this beautiful little blanket so we made a thank you card and included this picture. I had Cora give it to her at church and thanked her over and over for the blanket. She looked at Cora and said pointing to her legs, "She wears braces like I do" and pointing her to head, "You know, she's special like me." Indeed they are both wonderful people and we are so touched by her kindness!

Some Good Looking Men!

The boys had some training and various meetings in OH for Kinetico and Joseph sent me this. What a good looking bunch. Sure do miss all the boys!

Saturday, April 16, 2016

Kimball Says

While driving home from a doctor's appointment on Thursday, Kimball says in a very excited voice:

"Mom, I just saw a white bird and it was the Holy Ghost! I can't wait to tell everyone that I saw the Holy Ghost!!"

Thursday, April 14, 2016

One Year Anniversary

April 1, 2016 marked one year that Lance has been self employed. It's been a roller coaster year and a life style adjustment not having an 8-5 husband, but we made it and met goals as well! Here are the numbers:
  • 68,132 miles driven
  • 8,784 hours on call 
  • 1,650 removals/transports 
  • 30 funerals conducted 
  • 17 funeral homes served
Removals of note:
  • The dentist that invented the sprayer/sucker they use in your mouth so you no longer have to rinse/spit
  • Author Dick Clason who mainly wrote westerns and books about being a Beverly Hills cop
  • The lady that invented the "Mr. Yuck" sticker
Side note: we also submitted our final student loan payment!

How Many Girlies Can You Fit On A Tire Swing?


New Kitchen Backsplash

We've been in this house a little over a year and when we bought it our realtor offered to put in a kitchen backsplash for us. She and her Dad flip houses and he's a general contractor so she's learned a lot from him. Well, here we are a year later and she reminded us again of the offer. I was daydreaming in tile! The one I liked the best was an off white glass tile, but it was $20/sqft which would have made the project upwards of $1000 just in supplies. So I settled for an off white ceramic subway tile. I didn't want a busy pattern or crazy colors, I wanted contrast with the counter tops and the cabinets. So that's why I chose this one. I LOVE how it turned out! It's so simple but it really just gives it a finished look. And while I was at home Mom made me a new curtain! I was going to make it myself but didn't get around to it so she did for me while Lance and I were in Vegas.

BEFORE
 
AFTER (including new curtain)
 
Deanna's 15 and 8 year old girls came over and even babysat the kids while she showed me how to tile and we worked together in the kitchen. It was a lot of fun and the kids loved having a few extra girls around. They walked to the park and mostly played outside in the water and mud.




Wednesday, April 6, 2016

LOVES Her Shades


Surprise Trip, the Last 4 Days: Las Vegas

One ordinary day in February and completely unexpectedly Lance asked if I wanted to go to Las Vegas, just us. My practical side told him no because we should spend that extra money on student loans or other business stuff. But what the heck, we did it anyway!

We left the kids with Mom and Dad for four days since we were already in Twin Falls. I drove up to Boise and met Lance at Jerusha's where we had an Easter dinner with Jerusha's family, Allison's kids, and Donna and John. I wish we had more time to visit but we had to catch our flight.

We stayed at The Linq which was right on the strip and were able to walk everywhere or take the monorail, it was actually cold there.

We saw three shows: Showstoppers, Twisted Vegas, and Ka by Cirque du Soleil. We went to the Titanic exhibit that had actual artifacts brought up from various explorations to the ocean floor. We went to the classic car show and had ice cream a few times at Ghirardelli's. We rode the High Roller, a big observation wheel (like a ferris wheel) but each orb was completely enclosed and could hold 40 people; it made one round in 30 minutes. 

The best part was being able to sleep in, eating my food while it was hot, and above all just being with Lance! It reminded me of our time in Charleston before we had children.


 This restaurant served farmhouse type food and I ordered their Snickers pancake which was 14" in diameter. And yes I asked for extra butter.
 Lance even met Celine Dion! At least a masculine version of her.
We knew this Vegas trip would be the last "just us" vacation for a long time so I'm glad we did it. I'm thankful to Mom and Dad who made it possible by taking the kids. And thanks Honey for taking me and even letting me get a souvenir or two. We had so much fun and I'm so thankful we could go!!